Connect with people
in your network.
Sync your contacts, tick checkboxes, match.
Zero risk. If they don't reciprocate, they'll never know.
No more cold messaging. No ambiguous situations.
Here's what the matching process looks like
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Hang out
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Collaborate/Discuss ideas
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Go on a date
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How It Works
Sync your contacts (currently Google contacts only, with more coming soon) and browse public profiles
Select which contacts you'd be interested in connecting with for dating, friendship, collaboration, or custom activities
When someone expresses mutual interest in the same type of connection with you, you both get notified and can connect
If there's no mutual interest, they never know you were interested - completely risk-free
Ready to get started?
What makes this app different?
Great question! Here are some ways in which it can help:
Looking to date?
Express interest with zero risk. If they don't reciprocate, they'll never know. No cold messaging, optimizing profiles, swiping. Stop wasting time on people who are not interested, focus on those who are.
Looking to hang out as friends?
Express interest in that only. No more misunderstandings. No "business meetings" with hidden agenda, either. They'll know what to expect.
Looking to collaborate?
No more cold messaging people. See if they're interested before you reach out.
Looking for something else?
Create your own custom fields to find people who share your exact interests.
You're in control.
You choose which contacts to sync. Your privacy and preferences come first, always.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why are you building this?
Friend circles and professional networks are great places to connect with people who share your interests. We want to facilitate many more meaningful connections, whether that's friendships, collaborations, or relationships.
Is this a dating app?
It can be, but it doesn't have to be. You control what you're open to: dating, friendship, collaboration, or custom options. If you don't select dating, you won't get any dating matches.
Can't people just reach out directly?
Absolutely, and we encourage respectful and appropriate expressions of interest, but sometimes it's not appropriate to ask, or people feel hesitant for various reasons. And sometimes you just need a reminder that someone exists in your network.
Is it free?
Yes. We encourage donations after you get value, from matches or otherwise, to help us cover costs and improve the app.
Do we really need another app?
None of the other apps support expressing interest in a risk-free and non-ambiguous way. Most apps make money from subscriptions, not successful matches, so they're designed to keep you scrolling or swiping. We only succeed when you actually connect with people, so our incentives are aligned with yours. We are not optimizing for "user engagement", but the opposite. We want you to spend as little time as possible on the app, and more time connecting with people in person.
How does contact syncing work?
We start with Google contacts, with plans to add Apple Contacts, LinkedIn, Facebook, and other networks. You'll only see contacts who are also using the app.
What about privacy?
We store only what's needed for the service to work, keep it secure, and never sell your data. You can read our full privacy policy here.
More questions? Feedback? Reach out!
You are among the very first people to read this, and we would appreciate it if you could fill out this 2 min feedback survey, thanks! Questions? Email us at contact@affinitymatch.org. Thanks!